6.1 "The Fight against pedophilia" and self-esteem disorders

6.1 "The Fight against pedophilia" and self-esteem disorders

Since the common fashion strongly emphasizes and enhances the beauty of girls and, on the other hand, the inexorable "fight against pedophilia" continues, there is a certain subconscious reaction in the minds of many women. Being women, they know (at least subconsciously) that the most beautiful were girls. They also feel that most men like narrow hips, not too big firm breasts (although they often say the opposite) and a generally slim figure. Such almost "butterfly beauty"...

On the forum, or even in pairs, nobody talks about it, because it's a taboo subject - deadly danger... (but the "cures for pedophilia" make furore) That's why women often want to remain "butterfly", or worse, they want to return to the physical characteristics of little girls. The extreme manifestation of this is anorexia - indirect deadly taboo effect associated with "the fight against pedophilia".

Anorexia, as well as bulimia, are not really about loathing the food, but about their own appearance. And the important thing to mention is that it is not the appearance that defines these disorders, because it is only their effect, and for example models that look like 'skeletons', are the last stage of anorexia. (before death) Anorexia and bulimia are serious mental disorders, consisting in the desire to restore a girl's figure. (which is strongly promoted by fashion designers) Anorexic women as if they were 'more determined' in this fashion to seek death and, unlike bulimic women, they are able to make themselves permanently repulsive to food, which is a consequence of anorexia; not anorexia itself. Bulimic women dream of becoming anorexic...

I absolutely do not hide the fact that a slim figure, especially legs and buttocks, count for me even more than a face in assessing physical beauty - also women. (although the face counts too, of course, and besides, some non-physical features are very important for me...) But women, who can be seen to be anorexic, have something deterrent to me in their appearance, no offense, but even something hideous... I would really prefer a date with a girl overweighted than with such skeleton...

Please understand, dear girls, that you don't have to torture yourself at all to be happy in life; that below a certain weight you become uglier and not prettier, that no matter how thin you lose weight, your hips won't narrow and you won't have the bottoms like in a seven-year-olds! {*}

{*There are girls who, thanks to their determination and certain genetic conditions, manage to keep their hips narrow during puberty. They subconsciously save their "butterfly" appearance at all costs and are able to remain so slim even until old age. But it must be remembered that this price is sometimes a huge problem at bearing, which I guess is not easy anyway...}

The same goes for the breasts. Some women just don't have them. Dear ladies; girls are pretty without visible breasts because it is natural for them! -and, as with the consequences of anorexia, something like that scares me a lot more than the huge breasts I never liked...

It is worth mentioning here contemporary 'eccentricities', such as pumping muscles with synthol, face with botox, mouth or breast with silicone. There are also the so-called "scarifications", where in extreme situations people resemble corpses... This is not as strongly connected with the subject discussed here as anorexia, but it is certainly always a consequence of difficulties in dealing with one's own sexual sphere. {*} -except for those who promote these trends and make money on it, then this is more of a kind of 'image prostitution'.)

{*This mechanism works in the same way as the one discussed in chapter 14, with even more drastic cases of silent screams of despair and cries for help from people who can't cope with accepting their sexuality...}